Sunday, November 16, 2008

Finally, an update!

I know its been too long since I've last posted, but the past couple of weeks have been pretty intense. I was pretty pre-occupied on Election Day with the awesome historical event that we witnessed. Sorry to those who supported McCain...but I was elated! Anyway, the following day was the 5 year anniversary of mom and grandma's death....something that I have grown to accept and understand that through their passing, awesome gifts were given to us. Although I would definitely enjoy their human presence, I know they are with us in spirit...and we will continue to learn and grow in their love. The night of this anniversary we were informed of the passing of my mom's cousin, Gail (and a very close member of the family) from a long battle of cancer. Although we knew that the end of her time was nearing it was interesting that it happend on November 5th. I don't believe in coincidences and know this happened for a reason. Dad even had a vision a month prior about this exact timing.

The following day I spent gathering all of Justin and dad's glass art up and took it to the Lodge to set up for the annual Holiday bazaar. Friday and Saturday I spent all day working the event. We had never done this before....and it was quite the learning experience. I think it was fairly slow for most of the vendors, but it was especially slow for me...and draining. Because dad had made prior plans before he knew bazaar was on the same weekend, I was left to repack all the glass afterwards by myself. I was wiped out! Anyway, if we do it again...I definitely know what to do different!

Last week seemed to fly by as well as the previous week. Tuesday (Veteran's Day) was the day of Gail's memorial service at the Lodge. Again....another timing thing...5 years prior, we buried my mom and grandma on the same day. I think by this point my emotions were all over the place because it was tough to keep dry eyes. I joined back up with the community choir along with my recruits of Cara and Amy...singing one of my favorite songs, An Irish Blessing. I got through about the first line before I choked up...then gathered myself up (with a little divine help) and finished the song. This song was sang by at our wedding by my cousin's...that included Gail. We also had this song sung by the choir at mom and grandma's service. Gail's service was beautiful and touching...and it was packed too. That evening some of us went over to the Ol' Homestead to visit with wine and snacks. I ended up singing at the piano with Gail's daughter, Cindy for much of the time (something I never dared to do before!)

So....on Thursday, I was due for a little break from the norm. Grayson and I went to Heath's work to have lunch with him for their annual "Thanksgiving" meal. Following that, Grayson and I traveled to Long Beach, WA to spend a couple days with dad. Dad was working for his buddy and vet school classmate while they were on vacation. We stayed at their lovely house on the bay...and made ourselves at home! It was very relaxing! We had some terrific food....stuff we found in their house (smoked oysters, smoked salmon, wild prawns, etc) and our meal at this fantastic restaraunt called The Depot (halibut w/parmessan mashed potatoes, veggies topped with a wild mushroom gravy; salad; beautiful clam chowder; pumpkin pie flan; apple cobbler w/ icecream and wine of course). Needless to say, we were stuffed...and happy as clams! We were blessed with some of the most incredible weather we've ever seen for the middle of November. Saturday was virtually a summer day! We were bummed that we had to leave that little piece of Heaven...but also glad to get home as well. We drove home just in time to meet up with Heath in Olympia....and then Heath and I took off for Seattle. We attended a "class" event by don Jose Ruiz called the Night of Transformation. Jose is the son of don Miguel Ruiz who is the author of the bestselling book, The Four Agreements. If you haven't read this book...its a must read. Everyone that we give it to or recommend it to...just loves it. Anyway, the event was very nice and relaxing with a small but highly energized group of people.

Ok...well, I think that pretty much sums up the past couple weeks. Now I will post some pictures!

This is the first spaghetti picture I've gotten. Hard to believe....but I guess I waited for the best one!

Hanging with Lily in his fort

3 comments:

Mom to Tate and Charlie said...

Sorry for your loss Jess. Hugs for you.

Stewart Family said...

You really have been busy girlie! I'm sorry to hear about Gail, it sounds like she was a special lady to you. Maybe things will slow down a bit for you... although probably not likely with the holidays coming up.

Cailen said...

I've seen that messy face somewhere before......Heath...in Texas...that's it!